"Non-pathologizing support from someone who has experience working with the Kink and CNM communities."
Many medical and mental health providers claim to be "kink-knowledgeable" and "poly/CNM friendly" but truly lack foundational knowledge of human sexuality, erotic orientation, and concepts specific to the kink, BDSM, leather, and consensually non-monogamous communities. You shouldn't feel like you have to "teach" your therapist about your community, relationship structure, and play interests in order to receive care.
I have received extensive education and consultation in human sexuality, Gender, Sexuality, and Relationship Diversity, and kink/BDSM. Most of the clients that I work with are members of marginalized communities. My goal is to provide a safe, non-judgmental space where you feel free to be your authentic self.
As a Kink-Aware & CNM Friendly Therapist...
I won't
assume the issue you are seeking help with is caused by or related to your Kink or CNM orientation.
I won't
assume that just because you are into Kink that you are also not interested in "vanilla" sexual acts
I won't
try to "cure" you of your BDSM, Kink, or CNM desires. You cannot "cure" what is an inherent part of who you are.
I will
be aware that any shame you have about your Kink or CNM identity may have been internalized from society.
I won't
assume abuse when you are in a BDSM relationship.
I will
be sensitive to whether and how your Kink or CNM identity impacts your personal and romantic relationships.
I won't
assume infidelity when in a Kink or CNM relationship.
I will
continue to educate myself on alternative sexualities through consultation and training provided by the community.